I went out grocery shopping with my parents today and found a magazine about human psychology. There was an article about sex in there that peaked my interest. That, combined with my current TL, got me thinking. And I should most likely be cleaning my room instead of writing this, but FEELS.
The article stated that humans find sex, kissing, and kinks appealing due to the acts being considered a turn-on or a turn-off depending on who you're doing it with. The fact that two people can love each other enough to do something so disgusting together is considered romantic. The fact that you can be into something that you yourself consider is completely revolting when compared to "normality", and the other person might possibly reciprocate your affections, gives you a sense of belonging. After all, there's a lot of people that, in their search for love, are looking for the feelings of belonging and security. That makes sense, I suppose.
Those who have read my fanfics might note that I'm not particularly detailed when it comes to things like kissing and sex. This is not just due to lack of experience (although a part of it probably stems from that, yes.) I have stated in the previous post about relationships that I'm not emotionally ready for a relationship yet. This includes the appeal of physical affection. Sometimes, I find it okay. However, I'm not ready to be with other people on that close of a level yet. That's just how I am. I will say, though, that I have been kissed before. With tongue. It's not the best of memories. As long as I don't delve too far into the mechanics of kissing when writing it, I'm fine.
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